Just The Way You Are

Assalamualaikum Warrohmatullahi wabarakatuh

Good night my blog and bloggers.

Tonight I want to share my opinion about the meaning of handsome or beautifull. Most of Asian people said that white skin is a beauty, an European said that tan skin is a beauty, so what about you? Do you think so?

Most of people see another person from her/his cover first, so do I. Sometimes that’s not a fair point of view. So I will straightening my point of view and yours. First. . . I will give you some case.

1. People think that you have anger face, but the truth you are a friendly person and they will said that you are friendly person after they know you.

2. Your lecturer said some cruel words like, “ I thought you know the answer,” just because you were a student from a best school.

3. Someone said that you have a beautiful/handsome face than other. I think you should beware from this kind of person, cause he/she totally take a point of view physically and of course he/she will mock behind you.

    From all that statement, finally I took one big conclusion from it. It’s very easy, but hard to do. First, I will give you another point of view that will make it straightening *insyallah. When everybody said anything ‘bla,bla,bla’ about you, that means you are the most lucky person to have their attention, they care about you, they talk about you, how popular you are! That’s good to not take care about bad words, but sometimes you might not just let their words gone away like a wind. You need to think “what’s wrong with me?” and it’s better to ask to your family or close friend, they will help you. Maybe you need to be more cheerful or up grading your knowledge or “more make up?”. Nah! I'd like to talk about “more make up?”.

   Make up is important for women even for men. But it depends from its uses, what for?, why?, and when?

   For an adult (men or woman) need to use make up, maybe they will feel more confident than before, but what for?? to working? To attracting? Or what? It will be fine if you use it in good way but don’t you feel that make up is not good for our skin? And for attracting? I think a man or woman will like you when you “Just The Way You Are”, cause love is when you being loved the way you are. Or maybe you wanted to be easy to see? I think inner beauty is the most easy to see. A good heart, attitude, or even good brain will reflection to us physically, I believe that.

So you don’t need to take too much people words, but make it become your stuff to improve yourself and Just The Way You Are 

Wassalamualaikum warohmatullahi wabarakatuh

 

Just For Share

Barokallah Always

Boost Your Qiyamul Lail

Assalamualaikum warrohmatullahi wabarakatuh :D

   Selamat sore semuanya, nice to meet you again.

   Sudah lama rasanya tidak menengok blog ini. Oke. Kali ini saya akan share tentang Qiyamul Lail, tau nggak apa artinya ?

    Qiyamul Lail ialah amalan ibadah yang dilakukan pada malam hari, sholat, mengaji, dan bahkan berdzikir. Alangkah baiknya if we Boost Our Qiyamul Lail. Selain karena pagi hingga siang merupakan hari-hari tersibuk, malam merupakan saat-saat yang paling bisa untuk tenang dan khusyu. Allah berfirman (Surah Al-Isra' : 79)

وَمِنَ اللَّيْلِ فَتَهَجَّدْ بِهِ نَافِلَةً لَّكَ عَسَىٰ أَن يَبْعَثَكَ رَبُّكَ مَقَامًا مَّحْمُودًا

"Dan pada sebagian malam, bertahajjudlah sebagai tambahan ibadah wajib bagimu, mudah-mudahan Tuhanmu mengangkatmu pada kedudukan yang terpuji"

   Bahkan Rasulullah Sallalohu 'Alaihi Wasalam bersabda, "Saat yang paling dekat bagi Allah dengan hamba-Nya adalah pada penghujung akhir malam, maka jika engkau bisa menjadi orang yang berdzikir mengingat Allah pada saat itu, maka lakukanlah."

   Selain itu Qiyamul Lail banyak banget manfaatnya :
   1.   Manfaat bagi kesehatan, terutama jantung.
   2.   Memancarkan nur dalam diri, biar makin ganteng dan cantik-cantik. So Boost Your Qiyamul Lail, terutama ibadah pada 1/3 malam, 2/3 malam atau pada penghujung akhir malam. Qiyamul Lail juga bukan hanya tahajud lho, ada sholat sunnah hajat, sholat taubat dan bahkan sholat witir.
   3.   Selain itu Qiyamul Lail juga bisa meningkatkan intelektual kita, coba deh sering-sering Qiyamul Lail, tapi kalau gak belajar ya sama saja. Hal yang pasti daya ingat kita jadi semakin tajam.
   4.   Doa pada waktu-waktu malam insyallah dikabulkan Allah dengan cepat, sesuai dengan sabda rasullullah diatas bahwa Allah dekat dengan hamba-bambanya pada penghujung akhir malam.

   Selain itu buat Allah ibadah waktu malam itu sungguh spesial "Sesungguhnya bangun di waktu malam adalah lebih tepat untuk khusyu, dan bacaan diwaktu itu lebih berkesan" (Al-Muzzammil : 6).
   Nah teman-teman, mau kan jadi yang spesial bagi Allah? Mau masuk surga? Disayang Allah? Mau mau mau. Oke Let's Boost Our Qiyamu Lail


Just for Share and Thanks For Reading :D

Wassalamualaikum warrohmatullahi wabarakatuh

 Barokallah Always

   

To Be Unseen

I might not the most beautiful woman in this world, and I am not the perfect woman.

I’m a muslimah, that have plus and minus attitude too. I’m not the kind of woman that you can see easily, not because I am the small one, but I just don’t have that thing. For me being common physically is relieved, but sometimes I just jealous with others, just because “Why I can’t be like her”. I know that I am not an easy going person, cause I have some boundary to be an easy going person.

Someday I wish, I can be a person that gives something useful to people, but I don’t want to be seen, I just want be a usual person. Sometimes being remembered is worth to us, I don’t need any of that stuff, being unseen is easy I though, you can hide as long as you want, you have camouflage power. Like Batman I guess, an unseen person. Another unseen that the most important in our live is Allah.

And one thing that I know, everyone have theirs own role in this planet. However being bad person isn’t a role. Every of us have our “speciality”. 

The Flower that Blooms in Adversity is The Most Beautiful

Assalamualaikum :D

Good Night … Today I want to share about wonderful quotes about flower.

You know that every flower has its own beauty, a unique smell, different characteristic, color and of course different shape. Human lives just like a flower.  We life in different way and thought. But a special human will make their life in efforts, hard life and hard destiny, because they take a higher level to make their live meaningful. so challenge will hard as level as  the life purpose.

One of good and simple film is about woman warrior (Disney film, “Mulan”) and about kids that fight for their life purpose in future (“Laskar Pelangi”, “Manjadda Wa Jada”, “Denias”, “12 Menit”). All of this film shows that they have to fight hardest for their purpose and sake, but in other way they have to sacrifice about thing that walled them up or sacrifice things that they like or their love or even their family.

Sometimes we have a lower thought which about “you are a woman and finally will become a mother, so don’t need a high background to be a mother” that totally wrong statement or though. A woman need to have a higher level background to be a good mother, and of course a higher level background makes everything going easy, not because their “BACKGROUND” actually, but more at higher background draws their more knowledge about life. A poor man will become a success man with study hard and effort that will bring them up to their life purpose, but a poor man cannot enter a school without money so they will work hard and study hard. Sooo hard aren’t they?

Why don’t we as a enough person fight hardest than a poor one? Are you want to be the poor one first to have it? Think clearly.

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Tau kah kalian bahwa setiap bunga memiliki kecantikannya masing-masing, bau yang unik, karakter yang berbeda, warna dan tentu saja bentuk yang berbeda. Kehidupan manusia sama halnya seperti bunga. Kita hidup dengan cara dan pemikiran yang berbeda-beda. Tapi manusia yang spesial  akan membuat hidup mereka dalam pencapaian, hidup yang keras, dan takdir yang keras, karena mereka mengambil tingkatan yang lebih tinggi untuk membuat hidup mereka lebih berarti.

Satu dari beberapa film yang bagus dan sederhana yaitu tentang pejuang wanita (Disney Film, "Mulan") dan tentang anak-anak yang berjuang untuk tujuan hidup mereka di masa depan (“Laskar Pelangi”, “Manjadda Wa Jada”, “Denias”, “12 Menit”). Semua film ini menunjukkan bahwa mereka harus berjuang keras untuk tujuan dan kepentingan mereka, tapi di sisi lain mereka juga harus berkorban pada hal-hal yang menghalangi mereka atau mengorbankan hal-hal yang disukai atau cinta atau bahkan keluarga mereka sendiri.

Terkadang kita memiliki pemikiran yang rendah terhadap pikiran tentang “Kamu adalah seorang wanita, pada akhirnya akan jadi seorang Ibu, jadi buat apa pendidikan tinggi untuk menjadi seorang ibu.”, statemen atau pemikiran ini jelas-jelas sangatlah salah. Seorang wanita membutuhkan latar belakang pendidikan yang tinggi untuk menjadi Ibu yang baik, dan tentu saja latar belakang pendidikan yang tinggi akan membuat segalanya menjadi mudah, bukan karena “LATAR BELAKANG” saja sesungguhnya, tetapi lebih kepada latar belakang pendidikan yang tinggi menggambarkan pengetahuan mereka yang lebih pada kehidupan. Seorang yang miskin bias enjadi orang yang sukses dengan belajar dan usaha yang gigih yang akan membawa pada tujuan hidup mereka, tetapi sayangnya orang yang kurang beruntung akan kesusahan belajar disekolah tanpa uang yang cukup sehingga mereka akan bekerja dan belajar keras. Sangat susah sekali kan mereka?

Jadi mengapa tidak kita sebagai orang yang berkecukupan berjuang lebih keras lagi dari pada yang tidak mampu? Apa mau jadi miskin dulu baru berjuang keras? Pikir dengan jernih.

Wassalamualaikum :D

Thanks for reading, just for share

Wonderful Sempu Island

Assalamualaikum

My blog and blogers… It seems too long for me to think what kind of subject to posting in my blog. So I decided to share my absolutely wonderful extreme adventure #alay. This is about Sempu Island and its beach…

Have you ever been there? I have been there last week. I never have some adventure, so... that was my first time. First, I’d like to thank to Allah to keep me alive and save me on that adventure. Second, I’d like to sorry to my beloved dady that I broke my promise to you.

Sempu Island located at East Java, you can go there by motorbike or car, first you have to go to Sendang Biru Village. I recommended for all of you to go there by motorbike, cause the road of Sendang Biru village is so small and little broken. Its about two until three hour by motorbike to get there, after you arrived, there is a small harbor that villager usualy use to park their boat. Nah, you can rent their boat to cross the sea before get to Sempu Island. Remember, you have to parking your motorbike/car in a park that available there, when I was there the parking was charged about Rp 5000/day. And if that your first tme to go to Sempu Island, you have to hire a tour guide, but don’t worry Sendang Biru have lot of tour guide.

                 

That wonderful adventure didn’t stop yet after you across the sea, the next level of adventure looked like Hobbit film, no no. . . You wont be there if this adventure like Hobbit film. For me this adventure so challenge me, a burning spirit and joy in natural jungle. The way to access Sempu beach is so many, that’s why I recommended you to hire a tour guide to guide your way to Sempu Beach. It takes about one half until two hours to get there. You only can go through it, if you bring much water and food to take a break on the way to go there. 

Sempu Island forest still natural so you have be careful, the rumors that Sempu Island has lot of snakes and monkey. And I aware you to not throw garbage in that forest, I hate human being like that. 

“Stuff” that I met when way to Sempu beach were lot of big tree, mud, big root that got out from soil, things like Tarzan “Auuo”, and many wild stuff that combined and made this adventure complete. It’s okay to fell too tired, but that “too tired” will be cure with the scenery of wonderful Sempu Beach. Now, after I told you about this, wanna come there? :D

Wassalamualaikum

 Even you can see a tree branch inside this water, what a pure land

 Scenery 1

Way to Sempu Island

 Scenery from top of coral hils

"My D4 narzist friends" behind them there is a little hole for the enterance of sea water

Beautiful scenery of South Ocean

Another scenery at Sempu beach

Barokallah Always

Borneo Traditional Food : Lempok Durian and Ampelang

Lempok durian and amplang are special traditional food from Borneo (Kalimantan). Lempok durian made from durian fruit, it composed of 90% durian fruit and 10% of sugar. Every visitor usually like to buy this food as a gift, cause lempok durian is very delicious. For durian fruit maniac, they should try this delicious heavenly food.

Gambar 1. Lempok Durian Khas Kalimantan

                                     

Gambar 2. Ampelang Khas Samarinda

The second special tradional food is amplang. What is amplang? I know every readers asking it, so the answer is….

Ampelang is a traditional snack from Borneo, ampelang has many kind of type… I know several of them, they are Kuku Macan and original amplang. For me original amplang is the most delicious than Kuku Macan, cause it is pure and made from  ±80% of tenggiri fish and 20% of flour and spice. Kuku Macan made from ±30% of spice and others from tenggiri fish. But from all that composition I choose original amplang, it just because I like fish very much especially kerapu fish. But if you don't like fish much, I suggest you to choose Kuku Macan.

Oke that’s all my repost today, enjoy your day and barokallah always. :D

Donat

Mungkin benar, kita tidak bisa mengetahui takdir secara pasti. Tapi kita bisa merencanakan segala sesuatunya. Seperti hal-hal yang telah kualami, kadang ada kalanya ingin menyerah dan menangis saja, tapi di satu sisi aku harus tetap kuat menghadapi berbagai hal-hal yang tidak sesuai dengan apa yang aku harapkan.

Tapi, ketika aku merasakan adanya keluarga, sahabat dan orang yang sangat dekat dengan ku, kesedihan itu tiba-tiba sirna dan berganti bahagia. Kebahagiaan dibalik kesedihan-kesedihan itu seperti halnya sebuah donat bagi ku. Karena ketika memakan sebuah donat aku bisa tersenyum dan sedih, teringat saat kecil mama sering membuatkan ku donat, aku disampingnya menemani masak dan duduk di atas ubin westafel dan bercanda dengan mama ku tersayang.

Buat ku kehidupan seperti sebuah donat, meskipun terasa lezat tetapi tetap ada lubang ditengahnya.Seperti kehidupan yang bahagia, tetapi ada kesedihan dibalik semua itu.

SEMANGAT PAGI !!!

      Pagi merupakan saat-saat yang sangat menyegarkan, dimana disaat kita bangun pikiran-pikiran serasa me-refresh-kan dirinya sendiri, seperti kita menekan tombol F5 pada desktop komputer kita. Saat itu pula aktivitas akan terasa lebih bersemangat, lebih optimis dan gambaran-gambaran tentang masa depan yang dinanti-nati berharap akan terwujud.

       Bagi saya pagi hari adalah saat semangat yang menggebu-gebu, mengganti malam yang letih dengan pagi yang bersemangat, mengganti malam yang gelap dengan cerahnya pagi disinari mentari yang ceria. Tapi ada kalanya, pagi merupakan saat yang tidak saya tunggu-tunggu saat tugas-tugas yang menumpuk belum terselesaikan. (hehe). Maka dari itu buatlah malam mu yang panjang sebagai bayaran untuk pagi yang indah.

Sobat-sobat sekalian, mari buat pagi kita lebih bermakna dengan aktifitas-aktifitas yang bermanfaat dan manfaatkan malam yang panjang untuk pagi yang indah :D

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      Morning is the one of fresh moment, which is our thought just like have refreshed, like push F5 button on our computer desktop. At the same time our activity feel more spirited, more optimistic and a bright future feel like will come true.

     For me, morning is a spirit become like more passionate, change a tired night become a spirited morning, change a dark night become a bright morning with cheerful sunshine. But there is a moment, when morning not a moment that I waiting for, it just because I didn't finished my homework. So, makes your long night become a payment for your happy and spirited morning.

Oke everybody, let's make our morning become meaningful with useful activity and use your long night for wonderful morning. :D

LOVE IS BLIND

LOVE IS BLIND because your mother started to love you before seeing your face.

LOVE IS BLIND because our parents still love us even we have ever hurt them.

LOVE IS BLIND because you can make your friend become an enemy just because they too close to our beloved.

LOVE IS BLIND because everyone who depressed can be a tough guy/girl just because they see their beloved one.

LOVE IS BLIND because love will choose anyone to be fall. "Fall in Love"

Cinta itu Buta karena ibumu sudah mencintaimu bahkan sebelum melihat wajahmu.

Cinta itu Buta karena orang tua kita tetap menyayangi kita meskipun kita pernah menyakiti mereka.

Cinta itu Buta karena kamu bisa memusuhi teman mu sendiri hanya karena dia terlalu dekat dengan orang yang kita sayangi.

Cinta itu Buta karena siapapun yang depresi akan menjadi orang yang tangguh hanya karena melihat kekasihnya.

Cinta itu Buta karena cinta akan memilih siapa saja untuk jatuh. "Jatuh Cinta"